There are times in my practice as a relationship coach for New York Socials when I have to advise couples to do something they hate to hear: break up. To be clear: my practice does not deal with married couples or those in common-law marriage. Most of my couples have been in a relationship between a few weeks to a few months, some as long as a year. A year, however, is a quite a substantial period of time to be in a monogamous partnership. It is enough time to fall in and out of love, whether or not people realize it. This is where the problem comes in.
Very often one or both partners cannot come to grips with the reality that the feeling of love and intimacy that has once existed in the relationship is no longer there. We are all creatures of habit. We get used to situations just as easily as we get used to places and people. It is more excruciatingly difficult to break old habits once they become part of our everyday lives. There are times you may know in your gut that the relationship is over. However, change is scary and facing a breakup is something nobody welcomes.
So how can you tell if your relationship is over and it’s time to walk away? While providing NYC matchmaking services through my company, I’ve come to see the top three signs that point to a dying relationship and that it’s time to walk away.
YOU ARE NO LONGER HAVING SEX. We are, all of us, physical creatures, like it or not. While sex is not and should not be the ‘be all and end all’ in a relationship, it is a very important part of any couple’s bond as it invites intimacy. Once sex is gone, it is very difficult to pass off a platonic relationship as a love connection.
YOU ARE SPENDING LESS TIME TOGETHER. Business trips notwithstanding, if you find yourself more and more apart due to choice, your relationship is on the decline. If you prefer the company of friends to your partner’s, it is time to rethink your situation.
YOU CEASE COMMUNICATING WITH EACH OTHER. If you’d rather call your friend then a partner to discuss a problem at work or a great book you just read, you are losing out on one of the most important parts of a relationship. Once the communication is dead, it is very difficult to resuscitate.
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Eating healthy while travelling is a challenge. Delicious food offered while on a cruise to airline food pose a dilemma for many. With some planning many of the obstacles can be overcome.
- Those who are traveling in an automobile can pack snacks, juice and water in a cooler and place it in a place that is easily accessible to travelers. If meals are carried with you, make use of picnic areas within rest areas located along the travel route. If outside dinning is opted, make sure to search information on the Web of restaurants along the route and what they offer.
- Many see cruises as venues of overindulgence. But many cruise ships will arrange special meals at your request and may even take your orders before you leave home. But if you are on a cruise without prior food arrangements, make sure to practice portion control and chose food items wisely.
- Most domestic flights do not offer food as a free service. You can buy what they sell. But it is better to prepare your meal and take it with you. Many international carriers do offer multiple meals on board and you can prearrange your meals. Given option once again choose wisely and control your portions.
People go on vacations mainly to recharge their worn out batteries. All that time at work can give you a great deal of stress that you simply just can’t keep in your body. As a matter of fact, too much stress in your life isn’t very healthy either. And if you’re planning to go on a nice date, romantic vacations at the PoconosMountains is also a very good idea. Now, if you’re wondering why this place is the perfect setting for a vacation, it’s because this place is beautiful. And we’re not just talking about architecture here, it’s also the beauty that nature has to offer. With lakes, mountains, rivers, and scenic roads that will lead you to your resort, you’ll soon feel your stress start to melt away as the air starts to get cleaner and cleaner as well as you move farther away from the city. This is the place where you can forget about stress, work, and all the things that make you troubled in your life. Here, you don’t have to worry about anything other than what you plan on doing during your vacation. And you might have trouble deciding too because there’s actually a whole lot of things to do here as well. From watersports, to golf, food, entertainment, spas, and everything else in between, you literally don’t have to go anywhere else to get your fix of happiness. And if you’re vacationing with the people you love, what more could you ask for?